If all she's asking about at the moment is the stuff, she ain't all that serious about a D. She may be testing you to see if you'll blow up at her.
Be extremely patient, measured, and kind.
That is the concensus, and I'm ready for that - but it's still nerve-wracking. I haven't seen her in so long, and I want to hold her so badly and tell her it's all going to be OK, and I just want to be the man she deserves, and, and, and...
I have about 34 hours to get my head and heart right to do this meeting right. I saw someone else wrote a while back that it's weird being nervous around your spouse, and IT IS! It especially is when I was so comfortable around her before (maybe part of the problem as well as I lost contact with her needs???)
Keep coming with ideas. It really helps!
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
