Okay, I do the same thing. Here's how I think... and it's twisted, I know, but it's still how I think.

I wonder if he's lying to me about tomorrow night and really going out with someone else. He swears there's no one else (and I have not accused), that he was an idiot to cheat in the firs place. (The *&^%$ is married now, so I know it wouldn't be with her.) BUT I still get nervous when he doesn't have a kid with him for the night. And it is taking every.single.ounce.of.my.being to NOT question him about tomorrow night... what I want to say is "you promise there's no one else and you're really going to B's for dinner?" LOL!! Of course there are lots of things I want to say but don't like... do you want to come home? ;\)

Maybe we should make plans for next Wednesday... that gives you plenty of time!! ;\)