Hi CL- I feel that our MC hasn't really been giving us any real tools yet to help us communicate better. We have only been to 4 sessions together mostly because my H has been so busy with work and it seems like we have just been trying to understand the issues that have brought us to this point.
Anyway here is my list...
The Divorce Remedy: The Proven 7-Step Program for Saving Your Marriage
Hope For the Separated: Wounded Marriages Can Be Healed
The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate
Five Love Languages: Viewers Guide
Should I Stay Or Go? : How Controlled Separation (CS) Can Save Your Marriage
For Women Only: What You Need to Know about the Inner Lives of Men
I completely agree that my H and I need to get on the same page...seems like we haven't been in the same book even for such a long time...maybe 9 months or so. I will check out the chapter in Divorce Remedy that you recommended though I am not sure when I will be able to discuss it with my H since he really doesn't seem to want to talk about our R.
Sorry to hear about your situation. I will never understand why this stuff happens? Anyway,I wish you lots and lots of strength to deal with what you are going through.
