UD, It is hard to take baby steps in healing a R. I wonder if your MC is being directive enough with the two of you. It sounds like you two are falling back into old patterns.
You mentioned that you're getting some books. What are they?
I'm wondering if a review of Divorce Remedy by Michelle Weiner Davis should be on your reading list? I'm thinking the chapter on developing relationship goals and expectations, and having a discussion about them would be helpful for the two of you.
You two need to get on the same page.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
