the old cliche "be yourself" really applies here. It is amazing how hard it is for many of us just to hang loose and be US, without wondering "if I say and act this way what would he/she say or do?"
When you go out go out for your own sanity and enjoyment, without expectations.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.