Define growth. I know many times, before the bombs, I would tell my H that we weren't were we should be as a couple, that we should grow stronger together, he never got it.
What are your goals? what specifically would you like to see in your M? Perhaps having some specific goals would help define your progress.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.