I think there is a section regarding the WAW on the boards...just back button some away from the SSM section. Also, I think DR addresses this issue alot.
I just urge you to read up in those areas. You need to take care of you, and the rest will follow. Avoid pursuit like the plague. It never works. It just drives the WAW further away. They want to be pursued, just not by you, not right now.
Try some other areas of the BB.....this can be your safe haven as the folks here know you, but the SSM isn't really your issue now.
