Yep, you win. That's not a good thing, by the way!
Do you need some "expert" to validate your claims? I mean, I don't think the judge will necessarily believe you in a custody dispute. It's just they tend to be so biased towards the mom, even the facts might not matter. Especially if it's essentially heresy on your part. Maybe Tom knows more.
On the kissing game, it sounds pretty harmless. I was never a 9yo girl, but I can see some kids doing that, though I'm not sure any of the moms we hang with would have come up with it.
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