Yeah, that is the attitude that I am taking. Who really knows, and who really cares at this point.
I have not intiated contact with the OMW, she is the one who calls me. I know talking to her will only get me worked up for no good reason, that is why I do not call her. I do have to admit talking to her has shown me how big of a loser her H really is. I did however call her once to confirm a timeline/story the day that I asked my W to leave the house. Other then that one time I have not called her, she has called me.
