Heather, there is nothing you can do when someone has contempt for you. You cannot hit your target when someone is callously and cruelly yanking the target back and forth.
I thought what you said to Mr. G was perfect, and it got his attention as well. He heard the door to you heart click shut loud and clear. ditto what stig said. Take care of yourself Heather, and know that you have come a long way in working on yourself. Nobody said you have to be perfect. Find yourself. Be honest. Do your best to not return hurt for hurt.
MR. G
I am really really pro marriage, I practically never speak negaitively of the missing spouse, and have hoped for Heather's sake and your kids that you would pull your head out. If I were the patriarch of a tribe, I would kick your ass right out of it. I understand originally you were hurt but now your just being an abusive [censored]. Your game of lurking or keylogging, just so you can make Heather dance and sneer and foil her attempts to regain your trust, love and save her family, is deplorable and pathetic.
Your attempt to break her, only resulted in you breaking her heart. Youll understand the differance soon enough.
