I agree -- maybe you should just say that anyway "is there something that's going to be on there that we need to just talk about?" If there isn't, he has nothing to worry about. I understand your need to see the bill and I don't think you are obsessing!

Hang in there, it's always a bumpy ride, even when things start moving forward and we're making progress.

I don't think you need to necessarily worry about the sex partners. I, for one, have never directly asked H how many people he has had sex with.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10