i have also come to the conclusion that i have to ween myself off of this site for a while. i am not getting any better or healthier b/c i am obsessing over this whole ordeal, whether it be my sitch or someone elses. i need to get away from all this. i need to distance myself from divorce in general and spend a month just focusin on other things. i could see if i actually had something to report but there is nothing.
this site is great but you have to use it the right way. i think there are alot more success stories then what we hear about i just think that by the time there is success those people are so detached that they are no longer here.
i am not in a good place right now, my wife after 6 months is still far to heavy on my mind. b/c morning noon and night she is my focus.
so if you see less of me be happy for me because i am mentally going somewhere else for a while.
