Being open is not a fault HW but look where it gets me in my M.
our H has an A, and you work on the R, then your H works on the R.
Me, one and only serious girlfriend and I read books, etc and not much improves till I say I am done.
Also, me saying I am open, if I was your H I wouldn't have a problem with anyone seeing the cell phone records.
Tomorrow, if I don't get the information from him without me having to ask again, I am going to be really straight forward and say "if there is something on that bill you don't want me to see, perhaps we had better talk about it right now. Otherwise, let's get this done with." Sounds perfect to me.
He said nothing was on the bill, so why the resistance?
Heywyre, I don't understand some people. Their M is flawed and still they hold out, play games, want the upper hand, play dumb, do all kinds of things for the SO but won't give more than a granny kiss.
Nothing changes till someone leaves.
Looks like you are doing better than some posters. Keep it up.