You are so right - we just need to focus on being the best persons we can be, no matter what we see coming, because that is the highest path we can choose.
Recently, I have been receiving a lot of comfort from a very small 4" x 3" book called "The Quiet Mind: Sayings of White Eagle".
Here is one saying that I just read:
The Infinite and Eternal Garden
Around you, or a little above you, maybe, is a beautiful garden, the infinite and eternal garden of the spirit; from this state of life, with its beauty and peace, and the love of its inhabitants, we draw close to you in your physical life to help you. We come to raise you above the limitations of pain and grief, into that true home, that heavenly life from which you have all come, and toward which you are all journeying.
- White Eagle
Me 46 WAW 45 M 21 yrs
WAW: "I need to be alone" 12/06 W moves out 3/07 Mediation finalized 08/08