Why do these things happen

[JR2007]

I have been going to Jodi. She's awesome! Really helpful, worth every penny, and my thing is, how much is my marriage worth? It's priceless, so the price I have to pay to talk to a DB professional, is minimal in comparison.

I was waiting for the third session til after something happened with my W, so I'll be calling for that appointment after Thursday I'm sure.

Bottom line, it's well worth it. I may even pony up for 3 more sessions, we'll see how Thursday goes.

Back to your other point about seeing your wife, I can see how that would be harder. I'm actually pretty thankful for the time off because I wouldn't have left her alone if I could have talked to her and I would have buried this thing inside of 3 weeks at that rate. I just miss her SO much.

By the way, crying isn't a bad thing. I would say just be careful doing it around your W. Some say a man crying is only doing it for himself (not sure what that means exactly, but it doesn't sound good). You do have to be a man, and be responsible, and show her you love her, and be positive and upbeat and crying around her MIGHT, and I stress MIGHT be seen as weakness. Show confidence and a genuine concern for her and that will show strength. Your wife wants to be with someone strong AND sensitive - it's a fun balance (that I don't remember how to do, but I'm working on it.)

Sounds like we're in the same boat 789, I hope we can both keep it from sinking