I just talked with my wife. It was like being in high school again asking a girl out on a first date. Damn that's been a long time.
I asked if she would like to have dinner with me tomorrow night... then I expanded to include Thursday night too. She said that she thought that something was going on tomorrow, but Thursday would work better. She's suppose to let me know tomorrow.
As MJontheMend and several others have suggested -- I need to start being more "proactive".
I'd like to get suggestions from ya'll on things I could do to be more proactive.
Some of the things I've thought of:
- Try to kiss her when she's not expecting it. - Try to kiss her at the end of the evening/date. - Send her flowers. - Write her short notes.
What do you guys think of these things? What else can I do?
I need to quit talking about what I want and start going after it. Not asking for her approval, just trying it with confidence. If I get shot down, I'll just try again the next time. What do I have to loose? What's the worst thing that could happen ... she could divorce me?
Corri -- What do you think? Are my balls big enough yet?
