To me maybe she is also use to you being distant with her Choc. That could be why she feels like she would be imposing on you. I am just saying as a woman and my husband insisted on coming and then maybe took me out to lunch it would make me real happy. If she is pushing you away all the better to show her you are here to fight for the marriage. The old Choc would NOT be confrontational or demanding. The new Choc is strong and shows he is here for the fight.
