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Gotta start being his friend...

(((((((((((((((((((((H))))))))))))))))))))))))))
I am so proud to read this .. while your heart is breaking you are still being a dynamic Woman.. this statement is huge. I have two teenage sons from a Previous 9 year M and we ( ex H and I ) were never friends.... this was not good.
..... he then dropped them off on Christmas Eve @ 6 years ago and never looked back and they have never forgiven him and I still feel the pain THIS CAUSED when they talk about him which is hardly ever.
So all I can say is I am impressed that you could make such a statement.. in the name of the great love you have for your Family. Your kids need this sort of thinking .. it will help them so much.

BTW...I live in WI too! You will be in my prayers. Keep strong.
God bless...