My thoughts on my ring is simply that I am still married and in spite of all the garbage at the moment would choose to continue to be married and help W through whatever. I am staying true to myself and to what I believe is right. I figure that staying true to myself is the best way for me to be an example for my kids too. So my ring stays on until I have a legal reason to take it off.
My W took off her rings in Dec of 2006, said the cold weather was making her fingers shrink and the rings too big. I bought it. She never put them back on. The few times I asked her about it, she got very defensive and never wore them again. I wear mine all the time, as I did before, as a reminder of what I have to do to be a great man, a great dad, and a great husband.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
