Ok, I replied before you posted this last one. If it is your sanity v. not asking then you have to ask or you are going to drive yourself nuts thinking about it and end up maybe causing damage that doesn't need to be caused if you just see it.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10