I think that's the best idea -- just leave it laying on the bed and/or just put it in a gift bag somewhere for her to find at her leisure, but not necessarily opening it right in front of you. Then see what she does w/ it.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10