no pardon needed here. Yes it is 90% our S that went looking for PA but. The OM or OW could have should have said NO. I too have been is a sicth when I was single with a ex GF. She wanted to start something and I told her sure when her divorce is FINAL.
So much hurt could have been prevented with one little word NO.
H
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know