When h gave up, I read SSM and realized that I needed to initiate sex even though I wasn't getting the affection I wanted. I also did something a few months ago that h was impressed with. See my post #1021278 .
He loves it when I am more aggressive and I have been lately. So much so that I am hoping he will become a little more aggressive, too. That is why I am so glad that he initiated this weekend.
