And so I keep going. This Friday H is being honored for 15y at his job. I asked him if it was ok to show up -- other times I have done things that seemed obviously ok and then later had him accuse me of "ruining" whatever it was -- and he said yes, but he wouldn't feel comfortable about having me approach him afterwards -- too many questions to answer. In the end, I decided to not attend. Too much baggage and I don't need that.
My boys are both responding with incredible maturity - or so it seems. Even so, they are going to meet with a C for at least a couple times. I hope that if there is more than they are showing, they will let C know. We'll see what tomorrow brings...
