Hi Rhoch-

You struck a nerve when you spoke of the weddings rings...My H left as ya know 1 yr ago. H stopped wearing his ring 6 months before that..EA/PA going on. Funny thing...I stopped wearing it the day he left. Maybe I should take your lead and just start wearing my band. What do you think?

I want to also give you kudos for keeping it together and handling things w/humor at times. Your on a rough road too. I know stats show more men do this. But, women do too. Its good to share the other side of things..


Me: 40 H: 39
M: 17 yrs - Together 18 1/2yrs
No kids
Seperated: May 18, 2006
EA/Poss PA with OW for 6 months prior to leaving.
2nd Bomb dropped: Dec. 23, 2010