Does anyone have recommendations on any reading material regarding forgiving. I am having a hard time with this, I say I do, but the emotional swings towards anger are wearing me out. I know the part I played in the breakdown of my marriage, and that is why I can start down the road, but how to complete it is the question.
I have known about the affair since last Aug, it ended last May, but she is still in the picture as she is his boss. I have set my boundary on this, he knows that ultimately she needs to be 100% gone, right now she is 95% gone. Whether he will be willing to look for another job is his choice and his story.
But regardless, I need to truly forgive, and let this go, for my sake. Any thoughts or tips would be appreciated.
I don't want to play this game anymore....
Me - 47 H - 49 D - 16 S - 11 Bomb - Nov 05 "there is nothing here for me anymore" EA/PA confirmed/over - Aug 06 Sep - Oct 06 Does not want to file for divorce
