Definitely DO NOT do the candles, bottle of wine stuff - that would be way too much pressure on her.

I also wouldn't say "have fun with it" - that's just opening up a whole other can of worms

I agree with GEL - keep it simple. You could go to the extent of wrapping it up if you want to (simply once again) and just leaving a note in it that said "thought of you when I saw this"

Or, better still - leave it laying somewhere with her favorite flower laying across it and nothing else. Therefore she would have to ask you - and at that time you could say you thought of her when you saw it and thought she would like it

I used to give my H "I Love You" presents. And that's what I called them. I would give them to him for no specific reason and when he would say "what's this for" I would say "it's an "I love you" present"



Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)