I would like it if my h did something other than just sit next to me on the couch. It is nice that he sits with me, but I would also like some kind of touching. I need to do something to get his attention off flipping the channels. Recently, I tried taking a shower early and coming back downstairs with nothing on under my robe. I sat next to him and let my robe fall open. He never noticed. Maybe if I fed a snack to him.