Need Veteran Piecer's Advice - desperately!!!

[Heartbroken]

I asked the kids to put Dad on the phone when he was dropping them off. He was VERY short with me "WHAT?" He said he was extremely tired and he was going to the apt to nap. I asked if he would call me later - he softened slightly and said yes...

My question here do I push to talk to him - how he is confusing me with his mixed messages (he goes from "He's going to C to work on him beofre he can fix us" to "I just want to file for D" do I start up a R talk or leave it until after the C session on Wed? I got my C session rescheduled for this Thursday too. I just want to give him some things to think about:

* His lashing out will not drive me away...I believe in us and I will not be the one to end us

* He is being mean to me just to push me away

*How come when he's not around me he is still unhappy - he should be pretty sure that it's me causing his unhappiness before he throws me to the curb.

As I type these I already know the responses - I need to not say anything and just give him his space right? Please let me have the 2X4's... I need some expertise here!