OH yeah we're still a work in progress, but we are a much improved work in progress
My H has whore/madonna syndrome/comples (whatever you wanna call it). So for him being sexual with me is a very difficult thing to do. He likes sex, he enjoys sex etc....but it's hard for him to look at me sexually. We've made some great progress (like the physical displays of affection etc), but there are still things that backslide every now and then that I have to step up and address (because he won't and I know that) before they start to fester.
I know that I will likely never have the sex life I once thought I would have, but it's greatly improved over where it was three years ago too. My perception of what I thought marriage should be has changed, as well as my perception of how I thought my H should be within my marriage. This isn't a bad thing though because now we each accept each other for who we are and how we are and because of this...we are a happier couple.
