Ok good...so you just needed someone to help you realize he has made some changes in his kissing...that's good.
As far as does my H reciprocate now...yes he does. It took him a long time to get to that point but he does now. A large part of it for my H was that because my doing it to him didn't necessarily "turn him on" it was hard for him to get that I really liked it. I think eventually he just started doing it to see how I really would respond and when it was favorable he continued. One thing I would like to say about that though is that when he would do something....I'd say something like "I like that!" But wouldn't go overboard....or later in the evening I'd make a comment like "I liked it when you grabbed my butt...that was cool!" So I made sure to validate his effort, without overdoing it.
