it's just not a quick peck. Now I don't feel like I've got a pair of lips coming at me at light-speed that I might miss
You just made me realize that my h has been kissing me like that lately. He sometimes does those "light speed" pecks. But I grab his head gently and make him kiss me again. The second one is slower and a little longer. For the most part, his kisses are a lot slower than they used to be and the hugs are harder and longer.
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do you playfully walk up behind your H and slap him on the butt, or maybe graze your hand against his crotch when no one is looking?
Yes, I do those things. I used to do it a lot more, but got tired of it because he didn't reciprocate. He told me that he thought it was cute, but it didn't turn him on. It made me feel like I shouldn't bother. I need to start doing it more often again. Not letting it bother me when he doesn't reciprocate will be hard for me, too. Does your h reciprocate now?
