No I didn't misread you, I knew that line was the e-mail from your H.
I just think you need to call him out and flat out ask him if HE is willing to do what it takes to fix this marriage or not...playing stupid little games with the bedroom is not making an effort on his part, it's petty, and it's childish at this point. Getting happy when he manipulates you into getting his way is just....well, lets just say I'd like to read him the riot act.
If he's not willing to pull his own weight in fixing things and make concessions towards moving forward...then I agree with the others f*ck him!
