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-Chuck
who really does like smart girls


Add to that list, people that will listen and consider someone else's POV. Someone that can see what it takes, the steps involved, to have what we have, rather just in the end product.

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I watched it once. It pi$$ed off the feminist in me (hi, Ms hairdog!). A bunch of girls with a Cinderella complex falling over themselves to be "chosen" by some rich guy they don't even really know? Ugh.


hey, it pi$$es off the feminist in ME too! so don't feel bad.

(yuck!).

-Chuck
who really does like smart girls.


Good. I mean, seeing that you got one. It would be sad if you didn't appreciate her. ;\)

And a smart guy will always top a rich guy, for me. And a real guy a fake one. Which is why I woudln't have any of those "bachelors" (snort) on a silver platter.

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Heather I'm going to respond better after I've had some time to think.
Sorry for the Detour.

Back to your situation.

The bed thing???? I still don't get it all. I was thinking if that was me (not wanting you in bed) what would I get out of you sleeping in another room???

Two things:
1. Avoiding the thought of OM kissing you, but you guys have sex. Strange.
2. He is so into porn or so hurt about what has gone wrong with the M, he (jacks-0ff, the term I like to use) masturbates and wants to do that solo. He is too up tight/insecure to allow you to be there when and if he does it.
3. Control/pay-back of some type.
4. I am way off and have no clue

Oops, I said 2 things but listed 4 things.

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Originally Posted By: SouthernGirl

Good. I mean, seeing that you got one. It would be sad if you didn't appreciate her. ;\)

that, it would...

Originally Posted By: SouthernGirl
And a smart guy will always top a rich guy, for me. And a real guy a fake one. Which is why I woudln't have any of those "bachelors" (snort) on a silver platter.

yes, well...there's always a place for "eye-candy". ;\)
but I prefer the 2-dimentional type, myself. If it must be presented in "3D"...please... don't speak.


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yes, well...there's always a place for "eye-candy". ;)but I prefer the 2-dimentional type, myself. If it must be presented in "3D"...please... don't speak.


Nothing wrong with eye candy. But for real-life consumption, he must have ..... texture.

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Just received this email from H...



You will have to forgive me if I seem a little happier. I just find out my marriage is not over......again......yet.


"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."

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What does he mean by that? Do you two speak in code or something? LOL


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Yeah. I didn't understand it either. Mainly because I don't see it. ;\)

Glad to hear you're happier, heather.

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I guess we do kind of speak in code.

He started being nicer to me this morning, after I gave him his bed back. I guess he felt the need to explain why he was being nicer. Perhaps he didn't want me to see the truth-that he got his bed back and I am being 'rewarded' for my good behavior. fck him.

Thanks, but I'm not exactly happier.


"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."

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Perhaps he didn't want me to see the truth-that he got his bed back and I am being 'rewarded' for my good behavior. fck him.

Well, that's how I read it too.
It's like the guy who abuses his W and then is so thankful she still sticks around, he is happy as a clam.
Like you said, F*ck him.
LFL

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