H initiated sex this weekend. That is the first time in a long time that he has initiated. He also tried something new from my list that I wrote for him. These are some really positive things. I am trying hard to focus on those, but it still bothers me a lot that there isn't any sexuality outside of having sex. I hope that when he gets his confidence back in the bedroom, he will take some of that outside the bedroom.
I talked to my DB coach last week. She suggested that I not talk to h about his lack of flirting. She wants me to read How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It. I've read some already, but haven't gotten to the part that tells how to change things without talking about it. It must be something like DBing.
