Choc. Shmagic from the other thread said The difference in my own situation this time is that I no longer have the FEAR of the end of my marriage. I want to stay with my H but I am no longer FRIGHTENED of it ending. This sort of is how I feel. Maybe I don't have the fear Shmagic had. I think mine is more frustration and thinking I have to make this M work.
I think I can see what works and doesn't work better when I have this frame of mind that failing at this M, isn't the end of life.
I don't know I am doing the right thing. All I know the other way wasn't working and I was eating myself up.
