As for the lighthearted, that is completely gone anymore. Its more the walking on eggshells. Everything is serious. It is reall hard to be light hearted when there is no cuddling, no handholding, no kissing, no flirting, nothing physical in nature. It is exactly the way Michelle describes in chapter one, all the fun is gone.
I understand why you say this, but this in and of itself is enough to keep her from approaching you the way you want. I speak from my own experience with this. As an HD woman, this type of attitude (overly somber/serious) is enough to push me away CeMar when my H behaves this way, this attitude would tell me "get away from me, don't come close"...as an LD woman how do you expect that your W would overcome it if it would push an HD woman away?
