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He loves to give you oral after he's had his way with you? Interesting. I've never been a fan of male fluid or rubber flavor, so oral is always an appetizer around here rather than a dessert.

Well, there is no rubber flavor but there is male fluid. Although I can't say he gets right in there if you know what I mean. He concentrated on "the spot" which is fine with me. And he'll use fingers below.
Actually I prefer he performs oral before the intercourse too because it feels so great when he slides in right after a big O. But I think he gets anxious about performing and would rather do that first. Either way, it's fine with me.
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I wonder just how much he's been picking up on your cues all along, and withdrawing sexually when he doesn't feel that you're all that into him. Like maybe his stepping up in the sex department is an effect, rather than a cause, of you feeling good about him and the relationship.

I'm certain that is the case. If he feels at all that I am rejecting him, he is not willing to push for the sex. Sot he cycle continued. I hope we at least have more insight into that now.
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