Thanks for the thoughts, and I largely agree with you. Angst over OM is obviously the most gun-wrenching, and therefore what I post a lot about, but it's 0% of my focus with HER. ALL of my energies are being spent on "looking good, smelling good, being good." Being the kind of husband and just the kind of PERSON that someone would want to be around. Maintaining my sense of humor, ditching the anger and the poutiness and the grumpiness, and trying to be more FUN.
OM and my marriage are two separate problems, each to be dealt with separately and in their own time and manner.
