Originally Posted By: LustForLife

Aw, thanks everybody. \:\)

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Was it everything you were hoping for (aside from the element of surprise)?

It was quite hot. And I told you I was direct. I just busted out with "I'm horny" while were sitting on the couch. I'm not too subtle. \:\/ Actually, I rarely ever just tell my H that I'm horny so maybe that is the way to go. I used to get annoyed he wasn't reading my "cues." He told me afterwards he loved that I was so direct with him and encouraged me to keep doing it. So I will.
And the sex itself was great. He loves to get me off with oral (after he has his own way with me) so who am I not to oblige. Said he was going to collect on oral for him next time. \:\) Is this my H?
LFL


He loves to give you oral after he's had his way with you? Interesting. I've never been a fan of male fluid or rubber flavor, so oral is always an appetizer around here rather than a dessert.

Looks like he's breaking out of his shell. I wonder just how much he's been picking up on your cues all along, and withdrawing sexually when he doesn't feel that you're all that into him. Like maybe his stepping up in the sex department is an effect, rather than a cause, of you feeling good about him and the relationship. I only say that because I remember a time when I couldn't get really enthusiastic about sex for a while and wasn't sure why, until one day I picked up an unmistakable "sex vibe" coming from her and got really turned on by it, and realized it had been lacking within her for some time. Of course maybe the sex vibe came from her because she felt that I was in a better place to begin with. No way to be sure how or where it ultimately started...

a fine and enviable madness, this delusion that all questions have answers, and nothing is beyond the reach of a strong left arm.