HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[LisaLost]

I wonder if MLC is the right forum for me?

Any suggestions?

Love,Lisa

[LisaLost]

I am going to read everything I can on here today, in all forums and write and focus on what I need to do to get on track with everything- My mind is in a hundred different places and I need to have a map or plan to calm it down. I do focus on my kids but they get home from school and are out on the trampoline or in the pool- The baby sleeps alot and I am not working right now, house is clean so I should use this time to get myself in order with a proper budget and a new everything. I will do this!!! I can do this!!!!


Love,Lisa

[MotherMovingOn]

Handed lemons? Find someone else who was handed Vodka and have a party--Ron White

Someone on here used to have a tag line that read "When life gives you lemons, stuff 'em in your bra."

I always loved that one.

Good job on the focusing Lisa. Give yourself some slack though girl--you just had a baby, you are allowed to be emotional.

Love,
A

[princess_nic]

Lisa,

We are so alike in that those thoughts just run around our heads obsessively. It is so frustrating!

Lisa, you are doing a good job. You will slip up every now and then, but overall, you are a great DBer. This worked before, and there's a good chance that it will again. Look how much he misses you already!

Yes, make yourself a budget, do whatever it takes to keep your mind as busy as you can. That's what I have to do, or else I go crazy thinking about H and ow and all the fun they are having. Gosh, if my imagination is right, they are having sex 24/7!!! And it's FANTASTIC!

Anyway, let me get my mind off that now...

You are an amazing woman, Lisa, and B knows it.

Love,
Nicola

PS Thanks for your post on my thread.

[forward]

Lisa, Of course you were emotional! Your baby is, what, 2 weeks old?? Give yourself a break, sweetie.

This is where I am so angry with my H--he should have given me a break post-baby and instead I was completely on edge with his nastinesses. It interfered with my care of baby (ie, breastfeeding, because I was emotional and as we women know, that affects the ability to relax and feed).

BUT the fact is that he didn't, and I need to DB now.

Try to get support from others if you can. For me, there were few people as I am probably an excessively private person, but it would have helped. If you can afford it, do the DB counselor thing.

Again, end conversations first. Yes, you are busy!!

[LisaLost]

I picked up D paperwork this morning from Clerk's office- There is no legal seperation my state. He doesn't love me anymore and he will only do this to me again. I have to file- I can't stay like this- not knowing- I already went through this before and I don't want to do it again.

What am I standing for?

lisa

[inmyplace]

Lisa,

Ron White is funny as hell.

If you are convinced this is the proper action, I support you. I would only caution that you be sure you are not making a prely emotional decision.

IMP

[LisaLost]

Well God sure knows how to get his point across.

I posted this morning about filing myself- I do think I am in the wrong forum- I need to find one that I fit in better I guess.

Anyway- I get this text while I am trying to figure out some sort of fair visitaion schedule to put into the paperwork

H: I am sorry I have had a bad last few days- have a good day - let things rest a little- you never know


Ok so I am taking that as I don't need to be rushing this filing. Does anyone see it any different?

Any sugestions as to which forum I would fit better in?


Thanks love,Lisa

[LisaLost]

Well God sure knows how to get his point across.

I posted this morning about filing myself- I do think I am in the wrong forum- I need to find one that I fit in better I guess.

Anyway- I get this text while I am trying to figure out some sort of fair visitaion schedule to put into the paperwork

H: I am sorry I have had a bad last few days- have a good day - let things rest a little- you never know


Ok so I am taking that as I don't need to be rushing this filing. Does anyone see it any different?

Any sugestions as to which forum I would fit better in?


Thanks love,Lisa

[LisaLost]

Well God sure knows how to get his point across.

I posted this morning about filing myself- I do think I am in the wrong forum- I need to find one that I fit in better I guess.

Anyway- I get this text while I am trying to figure out some sort of fair visitaion schedule to put into the paperwork

H: I am sorry I have had a bad last few days- have a good day - let things rest a little- you never know


Ok so I am taking that as I don't need to be rushing this filing. Does anyone see it any different?

Any sugestions as to which forum I would fit better in?


Thanks love,Lisa