You sound good Jenny. Any R has its ups and downs. SD says some good things. DB has many good tools but the trap is we over focus on the M. We walk on eggshells too much and look for "results".
Someday, we will "just be". To be ourselves. To be in a R and give in that R and expect nothing in return. To allow our partners to be who they are. That is far easier said than done.
