Wife hits me.....need help....

[~Sol]

Yes, I have an excellent resource. I know that I must either:

1. Choose to be happy for me and deal with the things that only I can change.

2. Convince her to go to counseling, get our M on track (it has never been "on" track...) or simply file and leave this M.

That's pretty much it.

I can do #1. #2 is the tricky part getting her to go or at least talk about our future.....and if nothing changes (nothing has) - then do the hard part and leave.