Are you ever lighthearted or funny with your wife?
CeMar, I may be way off...but I do have an impression of you as a humorless type of person. It's just the impression I've formed from your posts, is that accurate? Kind of dry witted? Don't laugh much? Don't smile much? Or are you actually really fun to be around and it just doesn't come across here?
If you are the overly serious type of person, who doesn't show much humor or lightness...that can be very hard to cozy up to, especially after awhile.
I'll use my H as an example on that. When we first met he was so much fun, he'd laugh and joke with me. When we married he suddenly became so serious all the time. I remember telling him "you never smile, you always look so angry". He always looked like he had the weight of the world on him....that always made me feel pushed away, like he didn't want me near him.
Now, since we've worked through many issues he is a much lighter, happier looking person...he feels much more approachable.
