Heather - I'm sorry. I don't know what to tell you about the bed. How about having it hauled away one day while H is at work and buying two twin beds and putting them in the room. Could you live with a marriage that looks like on the outside what it is like on the inside? I have considered this option for myself. You don't have to leave, you don't have to have drama and you can simply quit pretending. I know this isn't the answer but what would happen if you did it or proposed it to your H?
I am guilty of addiction to "Dancing With the Stars."
