I'm thinking it was a good thing that she described it as the "last gesture". How many chances do you have to give to an emotional abuser?
By the way, Rabbi Shmuley Boteach says that "rolling eyes" is the pinnacle of showing contempt for another person.
And finally, don't be embarrassed, Heather. I watched the finale of "The Bachelor", too. So glad he picked Tessa. I'm watching the post-finale wrap up tonight, too. It's a guilty pleasure of mine.