I picked up my pillow and blanket and, consumed with emotion, I said 'This will be the last gesture I make on behalf of this marriage'. And I slept on the couch.
What exactly were you trying to say in this gesture?
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He told me this morning that he liked my pants! WTF? I was completely irritated that he was even looking at me....you threw me out of our bedroom yet again last night and today you want to imply that my ass looks good?!
Seems to me from what you wrote he didn't throw you out Heather, you left....again. I know he's made comments about the bedroom situation, but you walked in grabbed your stuff and dramatically left.
I guess, and this is just my honest impression correct me if you think I'm wrong...but you walked out of the bedroom and made a statement about this being "the last gesture" to my ears (or eyes in this case) that's very much like saying "I'm done", which is similar to you threatening to leave like you have in the past. I realize I'm linking things here, but I wanted you to see my train of thought. Isn't one of the issues he's had with you in the past the fact that you keep threatening to leave?
Not bashing you upside the head, I understand being emotional...it just appears to me like you left......again.
Oh and FWIW, I don't view it as a bad thing that you didn't jump to answer his calls. Maybe it's time for a bit of a 180 with him.
