Need Veteran Piecer's Advice - desperately!!!

[Heartbroken]

Thanks!

Well I called him and he let it go to vme and I just said "I was hoping he was doing ok and that he made it into work okay, no need to call me back." He did text msg me: "I'm OK. About the same. I only slept about one hour last night. Sorry, but I don't want to talk at work. Don't worry - I have to start taking care of me." I text back "thanks for the msg, I am worried about YOU too."

I have a gut feel I may be served with papers in the future - he really believes his pain and hurt will go away if we D, though he has been saying it's not you/it's not us.... I may be movng into the MLC group...

I changed my C appt to this Thursday - which makes me feel better. I am thinking about contacting a lawyer just to protect myself and my kids...

Thanks for all your support! I will pull back from him today and let him have his space...