It's much more than abuse going on with my W. It has gotten to the point where she is getting desperate about something and doesn't want me to leave her, but I know it's not because she loves me (I know now she doesn't or isn't in love with me at all). But I know that if I want my kid to live a happier life in a loving environment, then my wife has to go with me to therapy - but you know she won't - not until she feels and sees that I am getting serious about fixing this or leaving.
There should be NO abuse (hitting, yelling, screaming...) in a marriage for the kids to witness. My daughter knows that we are not really happy, and has pointed out herself that "mommy is mean". That tells me something about my W's anger - and she projects it at me - still blames me for her unhappiness and A whenever we fight.
Things are calm (again)......but I am doing something different....NOTHING.
I am keeping myself happy, busy, and thinking about what I need to do.
Last edited by sol1696; 05/22/0701:27 PM.
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~
