Sometimes, when you have a headache... it feels really good to bang your head against a wall.
Corri
Corri, that's true at times, I can agree with that. However, CeMar has been banging his head against the same wall for at least three years (that I know of during my time here), when you've banged your head against the wall for so long you tend to lose feeling, or you just hurt that much more. I see him doing this though still expecting that something will change, without changing his actions (that we know of). Sometimes I think it's necessary to push a bit to get someone out of their comfort zone when they are in a rut (which is what I think he's in, an entitlement rut)....then if they still resist, backoff....or drop the rope completely.
No one can force him out of his shell that's for sure, he has to do that on his own....but sometimes prodding is helpful, even the occasional 2x4....although with his very linear thinking, I don't think the 2x4's actually help.
